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		<title>By: BigUglyManDoll</title>
		<link>http://dreamcafe.com/words/2008/02/29/ye-ha-we-done-been-exposed/comment-page-1/#comment-874</link>
		<dc:creator>BigUglyManDoll</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2008 15:34:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As usual, the good Mr. Shetterly nailed it with #16.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As usual, the good Mr. Shetterly nailed it with #16.</p>
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		<title>By: Tuffy</title>
		<link>http://dreamcafe.com/words/2008/02/29/ye-ha-we-done-been-exposed/comment-page-1/#comment-858</link>
		<dc:creator>Tuffy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2008 19:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bahahaha! I admit, I have on occasion found tentacle porn a bit hot. Seriously!

Anyway, thanks for all the comments. This is the most interest my blog has garnered since I picked on fantasy readers a couple months back. (Your comments have the same tenor, too.) But I think your focus on the marginalized-woman thing is obscuring the real issue. As a real-life dog -- uh, I mean, woman -- I just don&#039;t see how there&#039;s anything sexist about not mentioning her. If I *had* mentioned her name for the sole purpose of identifying her (apparent) sexual status, I think it would have sounded like I was calling her a trollop or something.

Anyway, that&#039;s not the real issue at all, is it? The real issue was that I was mean. Or sounded mean. I actually didn&#039;t intend that post as anything but lighthearted joshing.  I just wanted to make fun of family meetings. And, uh, Trotskyism. A little. But yeah, it&#039;s true that I often mock sci-fi/fantasy nerds on my blog. So if you are one, you probably shouldn&#039;t read it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bahahaha! I admit, I have on occasion found tentacle porn a bit hot. Seriously!</p>
<p>Anyway, thanks for all the comments. This is the most interest my blog has garnered since I picked on fantasy readers a couple months back. (Your comments have the same tenor, too.) But I think your focus on the marginalized-woman thing is obscuring the real issue. As a real-life dog &#8212; uh, I mean, woman &#8212; I just don&#8217;t see how there&#8217;s anything sexist about not mentioning her. If I *had* mentioned her name for the sole purpose of identifying her (apparent) sexual status, I think it would have sounded like I was calling her a trollop or something.</p>
<p>Anyway, that&#8217;s not the real issue at all, is it? The real issue was that I was mean. Or sounded mean. I actually didn&#8217;t intend that post as anything but lighthearted joshing.  I just wanted to make fun of family meetings. And, uh, Trotskyism. A little. But yeah, it&#8217;s true that I often mock sci-fi/fantasy nerds on my blog. So if you are one, you probably shouldn&#8217;t read it.</p>
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		<title>By: Klavafiend</title>
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		<dc:creator>Klavafiend</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2008 01:29:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>skzb@32:
Of course women can&#039;t be sexist.
Its the same situation as anyone non-white trying to be racist: Un-possible.
The question in my mind is: How old is said blogger? &quot;Fingercuffs&quot;? Really? Is that at least a Chasing Amy reference? Because I&#039;d swear most real readers are far, far past shock at the personal lives of any author, especially as compared to more &#039;mainstreamed&#039; forms of celebrity. 
I posit that said Tuffy&#039;s perhaps subconscious marginalization of the &#039;woman&#039; (referred to henceforth as &quot;Reesa&quot; in accordance with the said blogger&#039;s self-styling in eir header) is perhaps a result of Tuffy prefering a yaoi  fantasy. You&#039;d be amazed the places anime&#039;s tendrils (or tentancles, though that&#039;s usually hentai related) reach.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>skzb@32:<br />
Of course women can&#8217;t be sexist.<br />
Its the same situation as anyone non-white trying to be racist: Un-possible.<br />
The question in my mind is: How old is said blogger? &#8220;Fingercuffs&#8221;? Really? Is that at least a Chasing Amy reference? Because I&#8217;d swear most real readers are far, far past shock at the personal lives of any author, especially as compared to more &#8216;mainstreamed&#8217; forms of celebrity.<br />
I posit that said Tuffy&#8217;s perhaps subconscious marginalization of the &#8216;woman&#8217; (referred to henceforth as &#8220;Reesa&#8221; in accordance with the said blogger&#8217;s self-styling in eir header) is perhaps a result of Tuffy prefering a yaoi  fantasy. You&#8217;d be amazed the places anime&#8217;s tendrils (or tentancles, though that&#8217;s usually hentai related) reach.</p>
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		<title>By: skzb</title>
		<link>http://dreamcafe.com/words/2008/02/29/ye-ha-we-done-been-exposed/comment-page-1/#comment-855</link>
		<dc:creator>skzb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Mar 2008 21:17:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, other than the fact that Reesa&#039;s name is on the blog, and that Kit is a he, I agree.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, other than the fact that Reesa&#8217;s name is on the blog, and that Kit is a he, I agree.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
		<link>http://dreamcafe.com/words/2008/02/29/ye-ha-we-done-been-exposed/comment-page-1/#comment-854</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Mar 2008 21:12:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m guessing it&#039;s the &quot;... sickest example of chivalry in the last decade ...&quot;

Since Kit identified herself in her blog (kind of hard not to), her name was &#039;fair game&#039;.  Since Reesa hadn&#039;t identified herself, she still had the right to privacy.

Wait, I’m giving a troll credit …  never mind</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m guessing it&#8217;s the &#8220;&#8230; sickest example of chivalry in the last decade &#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>Since Kit identified herself in her blog (kind of hard not to), her name was &#8216;fair game&#8217;.  Since Reesa hadn&#8217;t identified herself, she still had the right to privacy.</p>
<p>Wait, I’m giving a troll credit …  never mind</p>
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		<title>By: catlebrity</title>
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		<dc:creator>catlebrity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2008 21:42:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you mean sexY!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you mean sexY!</p>
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		<title>By: Seth Breidbart</title>
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		<dc:creator>Seth Breidbart</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2008 21:39:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is the Internet.  Can you prove that Tuffy isn&#039;t a dog?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the Internet.  Can you prove that Tuffy isn&#8217;t a dog?</p>
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		<title>By: skzb</title>
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		<dc:creator>skzb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2008 21:23:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually, Kit noticed.  As for me, mea culpa: I keep forgetting that women can&#039;t be sexist.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually, Kit noticed.  As for me, mea culpa: I keep forgetting that women can&#8217;t be sexist.</p>
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		<title>By: catlebrity</title>
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		<dc:creator>catlebrity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2008 20:58:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Funny that you&#039;ve all got your knickers in a bunch over the fact that Tuffy didn&#039;t identify Reesa by name yet none of you noticed that Tuffy is in fact ... a woman. Huh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Funny that you&#8217;ve all got your knickers in a bunch over the fact that Tuffy didn&#8217;t identify Reesa by name yet none of you noticed that Tuffy is in fact &#8230; a woman. Huh.</p>
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		<title>By: Springtime for Spacers</title>
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		<dc:creator>Springtime for Spacers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2008 16:28:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>People are strange -- accepting the charge.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People are strange &#8212; accepting the charge.</p>
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